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A Complete Guide to Writing a Great Eulogy for a Loved One

Delivering a eulogy at one of the funeral homes in North Riverdale, NY during a loved one’s funeral services is one of the most nerve-racking things that you’ll ever do. But as long as you take the right approach to putting it together, it’ll also be one of the most rewarding aspects of your entire life. You’ll appreciate the fact that you were able to pay tribute to your loved one’s life in your own special way. Here is a guide that will help you write a great eulogy for a loved one from start to finish. 

 

Begin the process of writing a eulogy for your loved one by brainstorming ideas. 

When you first sit down to write a eulogy for a loved one, you might be tempted to begin trying to crank it out right away. But before you write a single sentence for it, you should hold a brainstorming session and generate lots of different ideas. Think about the different stories that you would like to tell in the eulogy. Before long, you’ll start to see some of it coming together slowly but surely. 

 

Find a way to grab people’s attention with the introduction for the eulogy. 

The introduction that you write for your loved one’s eulogy will be the most important aspect of it. If you don’t grab people’s attention right from the start, you’re going to lose a lot of them before you get into the heart of the eulogy. With this in mind, you should feel free to share an interesting story at the beginning of the eulogy to get people’s attention and keep it. It should be something on the lighter side even though you’ll be delivering the eulogy during your loved one’s North Riverdale, NY funeral services

 

Include lots of details about your loved one’s life without going too overboard. 

In reality, you could probably spend all day talking about your loved one’s life and what it meant you and other people. But you should try to limit the eulogy to just five or ten minutes tops. The key is to work some of the details about your loved one’s life into the mix without going too crazy and including every detail about their life. Pick the important stuff and make sure that it makes it into your final draft and cut whatever you don’t think is 100 percent necessary. 

 

Turn to your fellow family members for help if you need to. 

Writing a eulogy for a loved one is so much harder than it might seem. You might feel overwhelmed at times and need someone to help you. If this is ever the case, don’t be afraid to turn to your family members for assistance. They’ll be able to help you come up with things to include in the eulogy and brainstorm ideas alongside you. It’ll reduce some of the stress that you feel while writing a eulogy. 

 

Riverdale-on-Hudson Funeral Home, Inc. can’t write a eulogy for your loved one for you. But we can help you out with almost every other aspect of North Riverdale, NY funeral planning. Call us today to begin making funeral arrangements for your loved one.